Wash and boil the amla with 1 cup water. Cook covered in low heat until its fully cooked.
After amla is completely cooked, it opens up. Once it is cooled, remove the seeds and take amla separately. Grind the amla to fine paste and keep aside.
First take cardamom, cloves, thippili and grind. Then add dry grapes as well into this mixture and grind to a fine paste. Keep aside.
Take palm sugar and mash it to powder. Add 1/2 cup water to dissolve the jaggery completely and filter it to remove any impurities.
Heat kadai, add jaggery water and then amla paste. Mix well. This will take about 20 minutes to get it cooked well in low heat and water to reduce.
At this stage, add herbs powders: dry ginger, athimadhuram, cinnamon and nutmeg powders. Continue cooking for further 5 minutes in low heat.
Now add ghee and mix well. Add herbs paste and mix well.
Add 50ml sesame oil or ghee and mix well. Continue cooking until all the oil is absorbed well in amla.
Once it comes to jam like consistency, add honey and switch off the flame. Mix well and let it cool. After its cooled down, transfer to a airtight jar.